What breed is your girl?

I only ask, as certain breed specific Rescue services will take on a dog with aggression/anxiety issues and work closely with a behaviorist/trainer in giving the dog its best possible chance of re-homing.

Friends of ours did this with their Staffordshire Bull Terrier who suffered severe anxiety which resulted in aggression toward other people and animals. They too had someone come out to their home which did help initially, but in the long term they were unable to maintain and provide the dedication required to look after their boy. They did their homework and knew that most shelters (rspca lost dogs home etc) would not re-home a dog with so many issues, so they spoke to the ppl at Stafford Rescue Victoria. They took on the dog with all his issues and after 8 months of intense training and behaviorist involvement as well as medication he was eventually re-homed with a family that was able to dedicate their time to what was considered a "high needs" dog. He has been with his new family for over 2 years now, and is a completely different dog.... so whilst i understand that you think no-one could ever love your girl the was you guys do, I do think you owe it to her to at least look at every available option available and give both her and a potentially new family the chance to love her.

Good luck with your decision hun - I know how hard it must be for you all