Thanks for the feedback ladies have to have a bit of a think.... I just gave her a bit of chicken while DH isn't home couldn't help myself (slaps self on the wrist)...

Nae and Miss E: Thanks for the information, I have never really had a cat only dogs so did not know that it could possibly be old age or a thyroid issue, I don't mean to jump to conclusions I guess thats why I was after a bit of advice to on what to do as I really wasn't sure and as I said did not want to just accuse them of not feeding her or anything, I am just a sucker thats all and a skinny frail cat meowing at my door pulls at my heart strings...

Thanks again.