Hi ladies.

OMG, I go away for a day or so and everything happens. Yikes!!

Tanya, hun, I can't even comprehend how you are feeling right now. You seem to be holding together amazingly well. All I can suggest is counselling, both together and separately. There has to be something going on with your other half and he needs to get it sorted to be a proper partner and father (if that is what you want!). Otherwise counselling will be able to give you some tools to help organise yourself mentally and emotionally. Best wishes. This must be a nightmare for you. Also, how is Indy now? Has the Dr given you anything for her?

AnnaT, welcome to Townsville (and us!!).

Sara, how's the back now?

Sorry, this is a short post as have to do some cleaning and washing. I forgot how many clothes a newborn goes through. Who knew they can pee that much?