My DS2, aged 5.5, has been invited to a birthday party on Sunday. We have RSVP'd to say he will be attending. His behaviour over the past few weeks leaves a lot to be desired! Have you, or would you, ever go back on a RSVP as a punishment? Admittedly, (after an incident this morning) I am a little wound up, but I am thinking he sooo doesn't deserve to be going!! But then I feel bad for the birthday child, who has done nothing wrong.