Familyof3- I cldnt do the whole email thing, I think it wld make things awkward but If DH gets the chance ill make sure he tells them...I always end up being the one to be asked though...dh isn't normally around... maybe they plan it like that cos they know im the weak one?!

Madb- oh im glad im not the only one!!

Swamp princess- oooh I didnt know about that under 5 thing. ill have to bring it up BUT also still have some good other reasons cos im sure they will come up with a new plan