Thanks ALM,

You are right - it soudns as if you made the right choice and if it meant getting here, then what else could you do.

I have a fab OB who comes highly recommended and is a high risk specialist working out of the Freemasons. Dr Stephen Cole. Not sure if you have heard of him. Anyhow, I am going to meet with him in a couple of weeks and we'll obviously discuss the plan ahead. I am DEFINITELY getting the stitch put in and I actually plan to go on bed rest from that point on. Just till 30 weeks. It seems dramatic but there isn't anything I wouldn't do to have this child come home with me - so if that is what it takes, then I'm doing it! I just couldn't bare the thought of being in hospital again and having the waiting game start. Who knows, it might still happen but I want to do my darndest for it not to.

I don't have any living children either, and like you, would like to have at least two. I personally would love three but I have to get to 1 first

Thanks again for your advice, it is much appreciated.

Love Joselyn. xx