Congrats....our #4 was a suprise too...my DH only wanted 1 - now he has 4. But at the end of the day he knew im super fertile, mini pill doesnt work for me and refused to get the snip...so kinda going to happen that i fall pregnant. Same can be said for you...

We have a 3 bedroom house, 6 people in it...we're doing ok. Although rennos will start soon for a 4th bedroom.

It took me and DH a long time to get used to being pg with #4...we both dealt with it in our own time....it wasnt easy...but we got there - together. Make sure you talk heaps.....