I grew up as one of 8 kids in a 4 bedroom house. We survived to tell about it. Actually I loved sharing a room, and my girls also share rooms and love it. Having a room to your self might be appealing sometimes, but having a close sibling to talk and share with is a life long gift, IMO.
Anyways, give your DH a little time to adjust - he'll come around. As Mbear said - keep communicating!
You are all so positive. And I know I should be, but I know my DH he doesn?t like pregnant people full stop. He hardly touch me when I got to around 5month prg with 2 DS, and when they were born he didn?t have a lot to do with them until they were like 4-6 months when they could see and watch things.
He will just have to get used to the idea I know, but as far as communication goes, he doesn?t he retreats into our little world and doesn?t say anything.
When I told him we were pregnant with other children it wasn?t the reaction I wanted, thrilled like me. No more disappointed would be more the word I would use to describe his reaction. (a comment was ?That?s something isn?t it, now what are we going to do?.) So I have condole myself with it is going to be a long and lone pregnancy in the beginning or maybe all thought but I meet some lovley ladies on here last time and was hoping there were would be another belly buddies due around same time I will join and get some support that way.
i found out today as well lol my bf has a low sperm count so its amazing thats for sure
but we allready have 2 kids together( he has a daughter from previous relationship) this will make number three our house isnt big enough ect but like i said to him a baby is a baby its a blessing and if he dosent liek it yup he should have got snipped lol
but i wish u all the best and will enjoy to share my jouney with u
by the due date calulator and my lmp im due the 9th of april lol
we are TTC our 4th ATM, and from what everyone tells me and what I hope is true, going from 3 to 4 is so bad its only going from 2 to 3 that hurts... we coped quite well with our 3rd so can only hope the same will happen when ( and If ) our 4th comes along...
Congratulations and good luck telling DH. Perhaps he'll think twice about putting off getting the snip now.
I hope that it'll all work out and that he will start getting happy and exciting early on.
Hun - it takes two to tango - unless he thought you were on contraceptive & you weren't it is just as much his responsibility as yours if you are not actively trying.
Registered User
Actually I loved sharing a room, and my girls also share rooms and love it. Having a room to your self might be appealing sometimes, but having a close sibling to talk and share with is a life long gift, IMO.
it is just as much his responsibility as yours if you are not actively trying.
Reply With Quote
Bookmarks