we are TTC our 4th ATM, and from what everyone tells me and what I hope is true, going from 3 to 4 is so bad its only going from 2 to 3 that hurts... we coped quite well with our 3rd so can only hope the same will happen when ( and If ) our 4th comes along...
Congratulations and good luck telling DH. Perhaps he'll think twice about putting off getting the snip now.
I hope that it'll all work out and that he will start getting happy and exciting early on.
Hun - it takes two to tango - unless he thought you were on contraceptive & you weren't it is just as much his responsibility as yours if you are not actively trying.
Like the others have said he wants to play russian roulette then he has to deal with the consequences. He knew it was a possibility that you could get pregnant again so he really cant be that shocked or disappointed about it.
If you are happy and exciteda bout the pregnancy dont let him bring you down and make you feel bad about it. This will send him off to the drs for sure.
Going from 2-3 was a big shock to the family dynamics but 3-4 wasnt that big a deal aside form the needing a bigger vehicle. We are about to go from 4-5 so I will let you know how we cope with that just in case hubby drags his feets on the snip thing again lol
SamiH: Am still on BF pill, however I am not BF full time. Only night time feeds, for about 1 1/2 months now. When I went to Dr. he told me it was still good/in effect. But if I didn't want to get prg to use condoms. I hate them, so I struck a deal with DH to no condom, but avoid ovulation days, which was a 7 day break from sex. So can't understand why am prg but am glad. 'cos I know what it feel's like to lose 2 and I don't wish that on anyone esp when you wanted them so bad then.
All-boys: OH MY LORD... 5 children. Good on you. Not many people these days have even 3 let alone 4 or 5 so more power to you.
We/I wanted to get a new car anyway, but now this it will be a must...
Anyway thanks all for your words, will let you know what happenes as said before I will wait a while probley until I least get over 8 weeks 'cos I normal MC around the 5-7 week mark. Now that it has had time to settle in that I am going to be HUGH again I quite like the idea. And the idea of a new LITTLE BABY to cuddy.
Dam there goes the guide dog puppy owners... That is what we talked about. To be guide dog puppy carer's until they went off to school then we could always have a new puppy at least once every 2 years....
Hey Sarah, there is actually a lot of us out here, lol...5+ kid families, actually I think only 2 of my friends have less then 4. My cousin is pregnant after 4 boys she is pregnant with twins, but isn't telling what she's having. Good luck with it all. to you!!!
Hi that could be my story!!! I was extremly worried about what my Dh was going to say, but it was okay in the end. I too have had a few MCs and am not sure if baby will stick, but so far things look good with good HCG levels etc. Dh was supposed to get snipped on the 3rd July but somehow missed his appointment???? although i don't think it mattered as I would have already been preg. This is baby no 5 for us he would have stopped at no2... but no 3 was supposed to be...... DS got very sick and all of a sudden nothing else but our kids mattered, I had a big urge to have another baby so along came no4 she took some work, to get here 3 MCs and 18 months!!! so no 5 is really a surprise no biggie going to bigger numbers it actually gets easier. As far as sharing we have extended, but there is stilll going to be kids that have to share, who??? will wait and see what sex this baby is... I am over the moon as well, DH coming around.
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it is just as much his responsibility as yours if you are not actively trying.
to you!!!
no biggie going to bigger numbers it actually gets easier. As far as sharing we have extended, but there is stilll going to be kids that have to share, who??? will wait and see what sex this baby is...
I am over the moon as well, DH coming around.
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