You are all so positive. And I know I should be, but I know my DH he doesn?t like pregnant people full stop. He hardly touch me when I got to around 5month prg with 2 DS, and when they were born he didn?t have a lot to do with them until they were like 4-6 months when they could see and watch things.
He will just have to get used to the idea I know, but as far as communication goes, he doesn?t he retreats into our little world and doesn?t say anything.
When I told him we were pregnant with other children it wasn?t the reaction I wanted, thrilled like me. No more disappointed would be more the word I would use to describe his reaction. (a comment was ?That?s something isn?t it, now what are we going to do?.) So I have condole myself with it is going to be a long and lone pregnancy in the beginning or maybe all thought but I meet some lovley ladies on here last time and was hoping there were would be another belly buddies due around same time I will join and get some support that way.
i found out today as well lol my bf has a low sperm count so its amazing thats for sure
but we allready have 2 kids together( he has a daughter from previous relationship) this will make number three our house isnt big enough ect but like i said to him a baby is a baby its a blessing and if he dosent liek it yup he should have got snipped lol
but i wish u all the best and will enjoy to share my jouney with u
by the due date calulator and my lmp im due the 9th of april lol
we are TTC our 4th ATM, and from what everyone tells me and what I hope is true, going from 3 to 4 is so bad its only going from 2 to 3 that hurts... we coped quite well with our 3rd so can only hope the same will happen when ( and If ) our 4th comes along...
Congratulations and good luck telling DH. Perhaps he'll think twice about putting off getting the snip now.
I hope that it'll all work out and that he will start getting happy and exciting early on.
Hun - it takes two to tango - unless he thought you were on contraceptive & you weren't it is just as much his responsibility as yours if you are not actively trying.
Like the others have said he wants to play russian roulette then he has to deal with the consequences. He knew it was a possibility that you could get pregnant again so he really cant be that shocked or disappointed about it.
If you are happy and exciteda bout the pregnancy dont let him bring you down and make you feel bad about it. This will send him off to the drs for sure.
Going from 2-3 was a big shock to the family dynamics but 3-4 wasnt that big a deal aside form the needing a bigger vehicle. We are about to go from 4-5 so I will let you know how we cope with that just in case hubby drags his feets on the snip thing again lol
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it is just as much his responsibility as yours if you are not actively trying.
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