Ok, just got my first BFP yesterday. A bit unclear exactly how far along I am due to screwy PCOS cycles but likely somewhere between 4 & 5 weeks. I'm sure it's completely normal but I'm super stressed now. Freaking out at every little thing from a runny nose to each trip to the toilet - what if there's blood, what if I have some horrible virus etc.

I'm planning on trying to hold out until at least 12weeks before we start telling people just in case something goes wrong but that seems absolutely miles away ATM.

When are you all telling people? How are you coping with keeping it a secret? Any advice?

(Maybe I should have posted this as a 'vent' - it seems like a petty thing to complain about. I'm very thankful I'm in the position to worry about this stuff.)