I'm only 8.5 weeks atm
Hope you don't mind me asking but are you having the 12 weeks scan to check for down syndrome?
My doc asked me last week but my partner and i aren't sure if we are gonna go ahead with it.
Many people i've talked to say they never had it and i never had it with my daughter....
dont mind you aksing . to be honest with you my husband and i have not talked about it in detail. i dont know that it would make a difference to be honest with you because we would never terminate regardless. i only know of my sis in law who had it done but that was years go, my doc didnt think it was necessary. so i think it is up to the individual.

best of luck with the rest of your pregnancy to if we dont speak again