With the first one i found it very difficult to fill one out as you have no idea what your in for really, even watching them tapes, you just cant picture it being you i think.
This time around i am doubting i will fill one out as i have no huge preference for anything, and i know i can scream painkiller pretty loudly this time!
As my first birth was very traumatic i am thinking of writing a short note and giving it to midwife to explain what happened last time and although i dont expect any miracle pain free birth that they might understand my fears better. May not work but i thought it was worth a try.