My hospital gave me a check list at my 36 week appt which I think covers it all. After reading comments, I've probably been a little vague on it, but it was interesting to complete it with my partner, as there were some things I didn't realise he wanted.
eg - I thought it would be fine for someone else to announce the sex, but he's very adament about doing it?? Also, he wants to cut the cord asap, and he wants me to have the oxytocin shot to help out with third stage. These are some things I didn't have too much preference about.
It was nice to write down on paper that I'm not feeling confident about drugs/epiduraletc, but will take it as it comes!
The other thing I though was nice is they asked about visitors in the birthing room afterwards (to which I've said - depends who...) and if there are any special dietary requirements (to which I've said oysters, lobster, prawns, salmon and soft cheeses..... I wonder if they'll come trhough??)
Fi