did it a few hours ago, but my net hasn't been working.
was a BFN for me this time. but because i've been so irregular i still don't know if I'm due/overdue or what, so if it doesn't come in the next few days I'll try testing again.
the first response ones are great! i used them both times, and first time was mid afternoon after drinking about a gallon of water lol. came back BFP in seconds but put it back in the box and left it, when still had two lines after a couple of minutes put it in the cupboard and went away for about half and hour thinking "you never know one might fade!" hmm. wishful thinking right there lol. so you can pee in the afternoon if you want! or you could hold us all in suspense lol until tomorrow and pee on it first thing.. i did that with this one because am poor student and wanted to get the most reliable result lol. and now am a heifer with 10 weeks and 6days still to go lol.. maybe burger chips fizzy drink and sundae were not the best plan for lunch lol..
but whatever happens YOU SIMPLY MUST TELL US WHAT THE RESULT IS! ooo! the excitement is killing me! and whatever happens it will be right. the universe knows what it's doing.. did you get a two pack just incase?
oh no! it must be wrong!
next time try in the morning maybe.. much love.
are you feeling okay? i know how much you were hoping. it will come, you never know it might just not have enough hormone stuff in your wee yet to show up. false negatives are scarily common.
yes I am hoping for it to decide its positive, but then again I'd much rather have kids in a proper 2 person loving marriage type situation than the one I'm in anyway.
thats true. i never thought i'd be stuck on my own either. but then i thought my b****** ex actually cared about me. funny how wrong you can be about things.
like i said. the universe will know when the time is right for you. i have great faith in it. everything will just fall into place and there your little baby will suddenly happen. and you never know, that time could be now, or it could be in couple of years. maybe that perfect someone is just round the corner, and then your picture will be complete: man, house, bub, whanau, etc. and it will be a great and glorious thing.
My first HPT this time was a BFP, I did another 4 days later and got a VERY faint pos, then did another as it was so faint we really didn't want to get our hopes up and it was a darker pos, so you just never know. I wish you all the best. I hope you're ok!
well maybe if you still get a BFN on sunday and there in no arrival of AF on monday morning it might be an idea to go see your GP as they can do a way more sensitive test, or even do an exam to work out what's going on. just for your own piece of mind hun, as all the waiting and wondering can't be doing your nerves much good, and i'd be craving a nice glass of sav by now (in fact i do from time to time lol!) and a movie with a girlfriend or something. cos a BFP is always just that, but a BFN is sometimes false and is really a BFP.. just to make life fun lol.
how are you holding up though hun? i hope you're going okay in yourself and not getting too down..
I'm good thanks livvy.
I decided Sunday was my retest day because I'm working today and tomorrow so that will keep my mind off it a while.
I know my last MP was early in Sept, and wouldn't have been any later than the 7th or 8th.. so going on the fact that I've had some 35ish day cycles lately I could still be going to get it.
who knows. the only thing stressing me at the moment really is the bank taking so fricking long to finalise my home loan..
the real estate rang me, first thing this morning to tell me my contract runs out today unless they agree to extend the finance period. oh joy.
oh hun. that's not cool at all. i'm sure it will be fine though.. you'll see!
well i hope that work does keep you busy and nothing cuts too close to home. and on sunday try and have a bit of a restful day with a nice chiclit or something to just switch brain off lol! am thinking of getting the new marian keyes (is on special til sunday for $23) and putting it somewhere to be my present to myself for after exams.
i do hope that everything happens as planned with the finance, that can really be nasty.. and not good for you! stupid banks.
and keep us all up to date on how you are. because you're important too. took me a long time to realise that lol. love love!
so AF turned up after all? oh petal. well, maybe there will be a moment very soon that the soul you so wish to join you will arrive and be there to stay. who knows maybe it's father will make himself known to you too. or even maybe it might be worth having a conversation with your friend, the guy who was that potential one this time around. maybe he might be interested in doing his bit on purpose this time. you never know, and the worst that can happen is he can say no.
i hope you're doing okay honey. my thoughts are with you
LOL. there is no way he would agree to doing that on purpose.
my ex would have, but then he got his other ex pregnant so he told me its not possible any more.
I really am happy without a kid right now. but it just seems like EVERYONE on earth is having them except me and I'll be the last one to join the club.
I heard of 2 more expectant mothers in my town yesterday that I didn't know about. that makes about a dozen people I know who are expecting. and its one less because yesterday one had a baby girl..
and next thing it will be my sister and my half sister because they are BOTH talking about trying again.
and here is retarded ol me can't even find a decent fella. anyone have the perfect man with a perfect brother for me??
i know what you mean about the everyone being knocked up.. but am in the same boat as you in the finding a nice bloke stakes.. but you know, what with being a nurse you probably just see a disproportionate number of pregnant people. i know i did at my last job lol. all these big round women would waddle in to see the acupuncturists.. and was talking to a red cross guy on the street the other day who was from france and was saying that new zealander's seemed to have lots of babies lol and that was so great! i must have looked unconvinced that a global repopulating army of kiwis was necessarily a good thing because he then said maybe not and looked mildly frightened..
but i do have faith that when the time is right it will happen for you. whether you're in a stable relationship with a good person or not. maybe it was just that the soul that wants you to be it's mother didn't want that particular guy to be it's father. that's what a spiritual healer told a friend of mine's sister after her second termination. she'd had one before her last big relationship, and then she'd been with this guy for about 5 years and never once got pregnant, and then had her second after she got pregnant to a one night stand. the healer said that there was a soul that wanted her to be it's mother but not him as it's father.
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