i know what you mean about the everyone being knocked up.. but am in the same boat as you in the finding a nice bloke stakes.. but you know, what with being a nurse you probably just see a disproportionate number of pregnant people. i know i did at my last job lol. all these big round women would waddle in to see the acupuncturists.. and was talking to a red cross guy on the street the other day who was from france and was saying that new zealander's seemed to have lots of babies lol and that was so great! i must have looked unconvinced that a global repopulating army of kiwis was necessarily a good thing because he then said maybe not and looked mildly frightened..

but i do have faith that when the time is right it will happen for you. whether you're in a stable relationship with a good person or not. maybe it was just that the soul that wants you to be it's mother didn't want that particular guy to be it's father. that's what a spiritual healer told a friend of mine's sister after her second termination. she'd had one before her last big relationship, and then she'd been with this guy for about 5 years and never once got pregnant, and then had her second after she got pregnant to a one night stand. the healer said that there was a soul that wanted her to be it's mother but not him as it's father.

so don't give up hope. it'll happen