Hi there All

Just thought I'd throw my 5 cents in....

I'm one of these lovely people that knew I was pregnant pretty much the minute we conceived - i started to vomit and hurl (sorry TMI) from 2 days in - unfortunately at that point no pregnancy test known to man kind could have picked up my pregnancy (trust me i tried) - so i had to wait the agonising 3 weeks to find out - during this time I felt such discomfort that I just thought it was bad period pain even though i was not due at that point - looking back that was definitely implantation discomfort at it's finest.

Having said all of this and bearing in mind that every pregnancy is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo different from the other i have suffered from what i can only call "period pain" since the beginning even after 18 weeks i still suffer from time to time (more often than not)

So i suppose the one thing to keep in mind during this really hard (exciting) and emotional state that we find ourselves in is that no matter what we do (as long as it is politically correct) during pregnancy if the beautiful little bub doesn't want to come to our lives at this time there is absolutely nothing, you me or any doctor can do to save it - this may seem a little abrupt but i've had to take this approach as I'm having a rather "difficult" pregnancy and this is what i have to keep telling myself so that i can sleep at night....trust me the worry has kept me up to all hours - all you can do is stay positive, pray if that's what works for you and have the support of the people around you that matter

I hope this help relieve some anxieties and gives you a little peace of mind

Good Luck to all the expecting mums and good luck to all the mums to be

di xxx O