we aren't actually trying for number 3, I am on the minipill (drs say it's the only thing I can use as everything else has given me major problems) but I have been warned it's prob not anywhere near strong enough for me.....Dh and I def want more kids so if I am then we will deal with it and we will find a way to cope (were hoping to have a bit more of a gap between 2 and 3 as it's hard with two such young bubs). I have to stop stressing. What will be will be......