thanks everyone. talked to dh last night. he wants to tell people already!!!!! but we will definately wait til the 2 trimester at least. We are getting together with all the family when i am 15 weeks, so I may feel ready to share the news by then. Will be easier with them all together anyway, and its not an an event focusing on anyone in particular, just a lunch, so i wont be hogging someone eles limelight.

might just get DD2 to wear a "I am going to be a big sister" tshirt. and let the girls tell everyone the news.....