they dnt usually try and listen to the hb till 14 - 16 weeks coz alot of the time they can't find it that early (even at 14 weeks its hard) and that can freak ppl out understandably.. also i booked into the hospital and they don't wanna see me for another two weeks by which point i will be almost 16 weeks and i just see my gp for now... get urself a good gp if u are worried because mine does things like bp and gives me referals for scans and things so i don't need the hospital.. as well as that i have been informed that my first ante natal appt at the hospital (when i will be 16 wks) will just be an interview about medical history and the pregnancy so far and wont include anything else so try not to feel bad hey