I personally don't see a problem with having the occasional drink. Of course in pregnancy you have to be more vigilant, but within reason. My doctor told me there is nothing wrong with having an occasional drink (just one of course) and still drinking tea and coffee once or twice a day if you want to. While I am certainly not advocating drinking during pregnancy, I have to wonder how they can possibly prove that one drink during pregnancy can cause your child to have ADHD later in life. I mean, how can they directly link alcohol as a cause? There are so many different factors that can lead to ADHD. Anyway, it up to us as individuals to decide what to eat or drink during pregnancy and to do what we feel is right for ourselves and our babies.