I'm like Danni and was given a pretty confident answer that bubs is a girl at my 12 week. But now i'm wishing i didn't ask cause i know i will be disappointed and hugely shocked if she turns out to be a he. I waited til 18 weeks with my DD and was able to see clear evidence of her gender so i didn't have the "what if" worry like i do now. Yep - the wait is a pain but so is this uncertainty.