Eveyone I know who has found out, have been told at the 18 - 20 week scan. Best to wait until you are closer to 20 weeks as you can, to get the best reading and go to a place that has a good rep with lot's of experience if you can.

I go to Monash IVF, just because they deal with major issues all the time and can pick up on things a lot of other places couldn't. I don't personally have any issues, just like to go to a good place.

They wouldn't tell me with Patrick's 13 week scan, but did tell us at the 19 week scan that he was a boy, and they got that right.

I will find out this time around, but won't be telling anyone, to make it more of a surprise for them (& Patrick). I just need to know if I need to buy anything pink, as I have all the blue stuff. I like to be organised, don't like surprises, it would kill me to wait until the delivery day to know the sex! But that's just me!