hi there
i think we all feel 'weird'in some way about DTD. I know my DH gets worried about the baby and my comfort etc. Personally I havent had a mc (lucky me) and perhaps it is worth discussing with your care provider as I know they have some guidelines/recommendations for women who have had m/c about DTD in pregnancy - it will let you know what is safe and also perhaps put your mind at ease... (I know for some women it isnt recommended but I am not saying that for you, only your dr or midwife could tell you that). and if that was the case i am sure there are other things you could do to retain intimacy...