Oh sweetheart the love you express for your daughter is enough to show you and us there is nothing at all to feel guilty about. Yes we give birth and breast feeding comes part and parcel in it for the body. But you know what, sometimes our bodies dont do what we want, sometimes we are born with disabilities, sometimes we get diseases, sometimes we are missing a part on our body. There is no such a thing as perfection and that goes with our bodies. So you couldn't feed her, ya gave it a good go though right! But it didnt work there isnt much more you could have done, so you stopped to save yourself the stress and your daughter the upset of mummy stressing and relaxed and gave her the next best thing. That is a mother who loves her child. No more guilt alright, its what happend and you did the best you could. That to me makes a wonderful mama.

Now that doesn't mean you won't be able to this time, give it a go thats all you can do, it may work or it may not. So long as you know you have tried thats the best you can do for your child to be. Guily courses self doubt and do your children need to feel that emotion coming from mamma, or do you want to stand strong as say I tried and I "KNow" I did my best so thats all that matters, both mother and child relaxed and all is good!

Join perhaps a Breast feeding suport group, either online or in your town! ON here yeahhhhhhh!!!


If ever I seen love for a child its yours in your words, thats nothing to feel ashamed of now is it! Ya goose!


What is meant to be will be ok.