Have you had a look in the Pregnancy after Miscarriage & Loss Forum? There are several girls currently in the monthly thread who are going through PG following a m/c or loss.

Personally, I totally understand where you're coming from. I have suffered 3 m/c and I fully appreciate what a terribly stressful time this is for you!! That's where the PAML can be great - they are really understanding of each other and where they're at.

Take care.