Thanks so much for you words girls! Sometimes it even helps to know you a not alone iykwim!

Wow Jem, a pity we are in different states or we could have had our own playgroup with all of our kids! lol

I am a control freak, and I think that is what is also stressing me out, cause I just know now that there is nothing controlled about kids - let alone 3 of them!

Thanks again girls!