thread: How often do people lose the second twin??

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member
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    May 2004
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    It's such a bittersweet experience when this happens

    My best friend is currently about 10 weeks and the same thing happened to her. She had a very early scan at almost 6wks and there were two babies, a few days later she started spotting. Had another scan about a week later and one of her twins wasn't growing. It reabsorbed and her other little one is doing beautifully.

    I think it is really important to acknowledge what you've lost, it's especially hard for other people (and even sometimes for you) to "get" what you're grieving for when you still have one baby...but you're just as entitled to those feelings as anyone else who loses a pregnancy

  2. #2
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    Dec 2006
    Brisbane
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    I found out in september of last year that i was having twins as we did IVF.
    We were so execited and i started buying thing straight away having to buy for two.
    We were getting scans every week because of it being a high risk pregnancy.
    Our dreams were smashed at my 8weeks scan when we found out baby B had no heart beat and had stopped growing.
    I was so so upset these things just dont happen to me but it did and i had to deal with it.
    I still had one very healthy baby to think about but it just didnt seem important all i wanted was my other baby.
    It was hard having future scans and seeing the sack. The sack never came away and it stayed attached to my other sack for the rest of my pregnancy.
    3 weeks ago i gave birth to a very healthy baby girl so my story has a beautiful ending
    but i still think about my little rose bud that never bloomed and one day i will tell my daughter the story that she was once a twin.
    I had my first scan photo with the two sacks framed and i hung it up on her wall and its beautiful,it just gives me some sence of peace.
    Last edited by Mumof8; May 25th, 2008 at 09:08 PM.

  3. #3
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    Jan 2008
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    I lost 1 baby this time, I am just trying to concentrate on the baby that is still in there..

  4. #4

    Dec 2007
    USA, Kansas
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    I'm sorry for your loss hun I really hope this pregnancy stays the full run & they stick nice and tight in there...

    I don't know much about losing 1 baby and the other one staying, But, I do hear it alot and the woman go on full term with the baby....

    I wish you a H&H 9 months and many months after full of joy...

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