Its funny.. i always missed being pregnant until i was! lol. Sorry you are feeling this way. But only positive i can give about the first trimester is, its better than the second for sleeping
Hope it goes fast for you.
I hated the first trimester and I'm a first time mum! I haven't forgotten any of it like people said I would and I still sit here today thinking "People go back for seconds and thirds of this??" lol
I dont have any advice on the "avoid stressing" because I did it! I'd just try and take each day as it comes and everytime I checked for blood I'd think 'Phew Still going okay in there' and tried to think "as long as Im not bleeding its all okay". Easier said then done though.
By the way... LUV the name Cupcake! Thats what DH and I call our bubs!
For some reason I just assume everything is OK, because I have no reason to think otherwise? I don't check for blood... is that weird? The only real reason I don't tell people I am pregnant earlier is because it is expected that you keep it to yourself for 3 months.
I guess I sort of figure that if something goes wrong there isn't a lot I can do except go to the dr if/when it does. There is no point worrying constantly about whether it will happen, I have a life that needs to continue irrelevant of what bubs is doing in there for the first 12 weeks. It probably helps that both pregnancies so far have been completely worry free (except for unnecessary worry created by medical professionals )
I do hate the first trimester though. I hate feeling so tired and hungry. I hate waiting to look pregnant and be excited about the pregnancy with other people. To me it is just the long boring stage of the pregnancy.
I guess it is a big waiting game...I was wondering though I have have breast soreness for the first 4 weeks and just today they aren't really sore anymore...is this ok? I know everyone is different in pregnancy...just wondering what others have felt...any sore stretchy tummy feelings? thanks!
Jean, my breasts didn't hurt in the same way through my entire pregnancy. They were really REALLY tender and my nipples fely like they were burning very early with DS1, but that didn't last more than a few weeks. In fact, this time around they haven't been sore at all.
I didn't get tummy stretching type pains until quite late with my first pg, but this third time they are quite obvious already.
And yes, everyone is different.
I don't think I dropped the worry until about 28 or 30 weeks. I just couldn't let it go. What did get me through it, though, was remembering that the majority of pregnancies are OK. I do have reason to believe things might go wrong, but that really helped me. And I had an amazing GP who is incredibly supportive.
The sickness though, I forgot that within 2 days! I had one last farewell spew at 14 weeks, then started to feel great again.
First trimester is the worst!!! Constant tiredness, morning sickness ( mine lasted 30 weeks with my first child!!!) this time round I was just lying here thinking " mmm pregnancy really does suck " hope you stop stressing soon - that's one thong I haven't done yet and I had 3.5 year ttc this child!!!
Good luck sweety
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I'd just try and take each day as it comes and everytime I checked for blood I'd think 'Phew Still going okay in there' and tried to think "as long as Im not bleeding its all okay". Easier said then done though.
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hope you stop stressing soon - that's one thong I haven't done yet and I had 3.5 year ttc this child!!!
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