I hear you!!

I hated the first trimester and I'm a first time mum! I haven't forgotten any of it like people said I would and I still sit here today thinking "People go back for seconds and thirds of this??" lol

I dont have any advice on the "avoid stressing" because I did it! I'd just try and take each day as it comes and everytime I checked for blood I'd think 'Phew Still going okay in there' and tried to think "as long as Im not bleeding its all okay". Easier said then done though.

By the way... LUV the name Cupcake! Thats what DH and I call our bubs!