Awww Sarah, sorry it was such a boring experience! They just don't get it do they? Just cos they go through all of this every day, when it is your first time, you do have questions and expectations and fears and excitement etc. etc.
What a bloody insensitive thing to say about how you shouldn't complain about not having any symptoms. Geez! You have every right to feel the way you do and she shouldn't devalue your feelings like that!
Would have been nice for you to hear the heartbeat for reassurance. Honestly, where is the bedside manner??