Hi Sarah, i'm sorry to hear that your appointment didnt go to well.
That midwife sounds awful, i would deffinitley ask for a different one next time
I dont get my booking in appointment until 19weeks because i am doing share care and my gp has been on paternity leave so i only saw him last week and i'm 15weeks tommorrow, i thought he woul of checked the heartbeat, but told me that i have to wait for the midwife to do it, i eep saying to dp that i'm going to end up having this baby without seeing a midwife LOL

Anyway i hope your next appointment goes alot better, and come on over to 2nd tri, its great.