Every one has given you great advice, I don't think there's a lot I can add, except maybe to SLAP HIS MOTHER! I say that with humour, BUT! Mothers really should think about the future when they mollycoddle their precious boys to the point of them being spoilt and hopeless as a partner!

for you I was very sick when pg with DS3 I know how you feel it's horrible! I think you're doing a great job, here's hoping your DP gets it together to look after you soon