First of all Congrats!!!! My x was like that when I was pregnant with our ds. It took quite a few months to come around. Just don't let him bring you down or try to talk you in to doing something you really don't want to. If this is his first he is probably just freaking out, he will come around. Have him go to your dr's appointments especially when you get to start hearing the heartbeat, then he will see it is a great blessing. Good luck to you