Thanks everyone,
he has spoken to a couple of guys he knows that have been in this situation and hopefully this will help him.
I am thankful he has a lot of time to get used to the idea, as I am only very early. Period not due till Thursday, but felt funny, and the most incredibly sore boobs. So I did a HPT, twice, yesterday both + and another one this morning differnet brand just to be sure - yep +
i am going to Drs on Fri & hoping he will come with me, mainly because of his disbelief in the HPT.
Anyway thank you again for you input and I am sure I will talking to you again throughout the next 8-9 months.