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LMS - thanks for your words termination is not something i want to do again or wish upon anyone else it is not nice and stays with you forever i feel. I'm just needing some support from outside my R.ship and yes ultimately i'm the one that is going to have to make a decision but i don't want to loose a family over it either. I want to be a new mum again I just wish my DP could see that, and understand that. He needs to deal with his issues of having another child and having to be responsible.
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I said it because i know its not something that any woman should ever have to go through, i also said it because some men are under the misconception that a termination will fix it and you can just move on no harm done. But if you have already been through one this year then another right now won't help your state of mind. He sounds very scared and worried. I do think speaking to somebody, even another family who have 4 or more children. there are quite a few on BB. There are ways to deal with a new addition. You can get second hand things, im sure your other children would help you out. As for the money side of things i agree on sitting down and working out a budget. You should be entitled to more money from centrelink and theres the baby bonus or paid parental leave which assists families.
I'm sorry if my words were harsh maybe its what he needs to hear. BIG BIG
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