I said it because i know its not something that any woman should ever have to go through, i also said it because some men are under the misconception that a termination will fix it and you can just move on no harm done. But if you have already been through one this year then another right now won't help your state of mind. He sounds very scared and worried. I do think speaking to somebody, even another family who have 4 or more children. there are quite a few on BB. There are ways to deal with a new addition. You can get second hand things, im sure your other children would help you out. As for the money side of things i agree on sitting down and working out a budget. You should be entitled to more money from centrelink and theres the baby bonus or paid parental leave which assists families.

I'm sorry if my words were harsh maybe its what he needs to hear. BIG BIG