Thanks for your replies im still struggling with it, but im just about to finish reading Allen Cars, The Easy way, such a powerful book and im so confident im going to kick it this time! I found out after my dating scan that im alot earlier than we throught, so im only 8 weeks along.... which is even more exciting that im quitting earlier in my pregnancy than i thought I was... Im also starting to get occasional morning sickness so smoking just feels awful now...
I always really envied the women who could quit, just like that! as soon as they knew they were pregnant. I found it so much harder.
When I did eventually quit it was cold turkey, for me it was much easier. Take whatever support you can get & good luck
I quit cold turkey 4 years ago and something a friend said stuck with me..she said "3 days, 3 weeks, 3 months, 3 years" They were the trigger points for most people and once you got past them, you just kept looking to get past the next goal and you'd be a non-smoker! Well, I've got past 3 years and I'm a non smoker. Gotta say that the first 3 days were the worst! Then it gets easier.
And now I think its the most disgusting thing ever invented and can't believe I was ever, ever so stupid or disrespectful to myself to smoke!
You've got such a great incentive to stay smoke-free. And there is lots of support here for you. You CAN do it!!
You need to find what works for you. For some it will be thinking of the baby, telling yourself you just can't have one etc. etc. For me, telling myself I was 'stopping' altogether, that's it no more Nick-O-Teen for me, didn't work. What did work, was telling myself when a craving hit that I wasn't going to have one this time but if I still wanted one later, then I could. Made it seem more manageable and basically I learnt that as bad as a craving feels that it does actually go away without having to have a cigarette. Just takes 5-10 mins and not all day. And once you've learnt that, it's reasonably simple to give up and gradually the cravings go away.
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