Calluna firstly congrats Hun!!!! So happy to hear you are utd. Don't worry, I ate a buttload of cold ham just before and I'm shamed to say just after I found out I was pg. had my scan and all was ok. Tell mil you don't feel like eating then hit up Maccas on the way home
Just wanted to pop in and say that you're doing great, you are not a bad mother. Then I saw this and had to tell you and Kitty that I ate brie while I found out I was pregnant. I had lots of nice cheeses before I found out too. Plus I'm fairly sure I had some afterwards as well. Plus drunk alcohol through the pregnancy (although only tiny amounts after I found out, at about 7w).

I also ate pineapple, flew, helped fit a bathroom (including lifting and not being allowed to use the loo) and did other silly things. I would say "and Liebling turned out fine" but I'm waiting to see how much therapy he needs in later life - anything after the age of 30 he can't blame on me, so just 24 years before I can call myself a good mother. Just remember that at this stage, baby is all in the egg and hasn't started to plug into your system yet. So won't be poisoned by spider-spray.