Pip, I changed docs cos my doc was an idiot!! He didn't even order the bloods to go with the 12 wk u/s...now I didn't KNOW that I needed them so why would I ask for them?? I had to prod him to even get my referral for the hospital!! I asked some questions cos I'd been told things by other people and he just dismissed them telling me they were wrong...turns out HE WAS WRONG!! I missed my 12 wk scan in the end all because of him! Sometimes I think they expect us to know what they're thinking!! I say find a new doc...one who can be bothered to listen to you.