I know, Linda, I always wonder after-the-fact where my assertiveness went!?! I'm stressing now about my next clinic... they have a scale that is sitting in the waiting room and you have to get on it then yell to the midwife behind the counter what you weigh. How awful is that?!?! But I know that I'll be sumissive and also do the weigh-in, don't want to run a midwife the wrong way - she might end up being the one who makes the call on whether to do an episiotomy or not LOL!