I let miss 6 tell family at Easter both sides but I'd already told my mum and a couple of close friends.
I've told my long term ttc friends because I think it's nicer to hear it personally than on Facebook and two of them were ttc the same time as me one got a negative the day I got a positive sad but I knew situation reversed I would want her to tell me straight away.

If I didn't have party to go to with all these girls who think I'm their best friends at 12wks I would save it longer but I don't know if miss 6 can keep quiet around them when at least one maybe two 29 week pregnant girls will be there. I'd rather control it I think...

I'm glad I told miss 6 even though it's meant keeping the secret is harder she is just so excited to see my scans and kiss my belly she was 3 turning 4 last time and we told her at 9 weeks but we lived rural.