Thanks BG. I had thought of doing something along the verse lines. I know my attitude to this is odd - I have no problem being generous myself with gifts for friends and family and when I find the right gift, I never care what it costs me, I just struggle to accept them back in return. I have even struggled to accept some hand-me-downs from a mate who no longer wants them. I want to pay her something for all the baby gear because she could be selling them on e-bay or something!! Weird huh? I am trying to focus on the fact that the presents will be for Dot, not me, therefore I shouldn't feel guilty LOL!