Hi - I told Caitlin at the doctors when i had it confirmed, and that was at about 6 weeks. She's three and bit years old.

I told her that she will be able to feel the baby kicking when my tummy gets big and shes asked every day since if it has kicked yet.

If anything did go wrong, I would tell her that the baby died. We've had a bit of experience with death - grandmas dog and my dad, who died before she was born, she says that they have died and gone to heaven. No idea what it means, but shes happy with that explanation.

Barb.