Mooshie, i think deep down we will start to try again. I just have to make sure that we are both comfortable with the idea. Im concerned about the kids no being ok with it but i remember being the same when we decided to have DS. Lol, yes he does have a cool name, thanks.
DD concerns me heaps about the subject because she is adamant that she doesnt want a baby sister or brother. I dont know if at that age she understands but i dont want her to feel pushed out iykwim. She was so down when DS came and i dont think i could handle that again. I hate her being sad.

Can i just say though, ive read your story re your beautiful daughter Jessica and i am so so sorry for your loss. I could not imagine going through what you have. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I hope i havent upset you by saying this but i only just read it the other day and it really hit home how precious our kids are. Sorry if i upset you, that wasnt my intention.

Thankyou for your reply.