Dee, you can't win either way. My boys are 13.5 months appart and everyone always has a comment, like he (2nd) must of been an accident, he was!! but much wanted and why would you say something like that infront of the child. With this pregnancy there will be 5yrs 10mths between my little girl and the baby and all im getting is "you'll have them all at school and have a baby at home, I couldn't think of anything worse". Well I think it will be fantastic and planned it that way. Don't worry what people say, they have an opinion about everything and it's usually not what you want to hear. Good luck and take care.