DS co-slept from day 1 until 18 months, he wouldn't go in his cot at all. He still goes through stages where I have to go in his bed but he pretty much sleeps through now.

DD went straight to a cot in her own room and thats how she liked it, she wouldn't co-sleep she liked her space. In the last 2-3 months she has been co-sleeping with us some nights usually from 1-2am, I love having her there.

This bub I have brought a bassinette, it is next to our bed atm but I'm just going to wait and see what works for bub and us.

I always took my babies to the lounge to feed them, I could never get comfy feeding them in bed.