Rachel - my step sister did that but, in all honesty, the boys spoiled it! They were silly with the games and just wanted to drink beer. The boys get the "head wetting" at the pub after the baby is born! That's their chance to "dote" (as much as men will dote!). But... each to their own! Maybe your DH and his friends aren't as neanderthal as my DH and his mates, hehehe