Rachel I went to a shower recently where we were all together for food & drinks & then the boys went off to play and the girls stayed & played games. Then they all came together at the end for opening pressies. It was really nice not to have the boys left out.

This time we are having a welcoming party for our little one and will have it after she's born so we will all be there as a family & just having a morning tea picnic in the park.