Oh yeah, I think the last idea was a great one. That way nobody feels to uncomfortable. Hubby can say to his mates that he is planning on having a bbq that will coincide with a really relaxed baby shower and would their wives like to come. Just for extra measure make up some invites and get him to hand them around. Maybe post them out saying "we are having a couples baby shower, you bring pressies for bub and we'll cook a nice BBQ for you"

Hope that you end up having a great day.



Take care
Trish